Sunday, September 21, 2008
Maybe, just maybe, if you had a moment of idle curiosity, you may have found my blog because of that very reason.
If so, this post is being written with the sole purpose of pointing you to a fan
who has the hilarious knack of inserting your name somewhere in her Friday renditions of Spamarama. It's always in answer to the best things that could happen to a person - namely her and the best thing is you.
Her name is Bailey and this is the link to her blog. BAILEY
Just a simple 'HI' in her comments would send her over the moon.
I could be wrong, but I think this song is in response to our current conflict. The beat is hard, the pace is harder. The lyrics are perhaps difficult to discern if listened to on the radio. That is why this YouTube clip is better because the words are there for you to enjoy. The crow is a bit of a spazz, but it's a well put together piece.
I have a tendency to like hard rock, so this song appealed before I really heard the message. It made me think, and that's a favorite thing.
Saturday, September 20, 2008
I tend to let other things totally slide, even things I LIKE doing.
I can't focus on other things when the object of my stress is my child.
Seems the school did it again. We hammered out an IEP last year, two sessions, the last one was two hours long held on the second to last day of school. They agreed to offer supports in line with MD recommendations.
I had a meeting ten days into the new school year and gee, what do you know, my child is falling: emotionally, confidence-wise and academically. Ten days and all present at the meeting noticed but didn't know what to do about it.
HELLO!!! Look at the bloody IEP! They didn't initiate ANY of the accommodations! They said 'sorry'. Sorry is NOT good enough! There were two supports they were to have set in place from day one. It took 2 1/2 weeks to do one and the other didn't even have a plan to do so yet! Yet THEIR MD said they were crucial to my son.
My advocate had steam coming out of her ears. Middle school is tough. Going into middle school with a new building, new rules, new responsibilities and,after two years in an isolated program which was finally deemed inappropriate (duh), going mainstream again is daunting. And they let him flounder. I give him credit. He didn't breakdown in school. He was holding on by his fingertips. But we sure understood something was happening...or not.
The other thing we had to fight, but ended up being anti-climactic, was their initial refusal to list Aspergers as a diagnosed condition. Because THEIR MD didn't see it in his opinion after six hours of testing, they disregarded the six week hospital program where he was there Monday through Friday for the duration. It's part of his med file. How can they say he isn't on the Autism Spectrum?
It was anti-climactic because they didn't argue at the meeting and it was quickly overshadowed by the other issues that came to light.
WHY is it so hard to do the right thing for my child? Why is it a fight? Why doesn't No Child Left Behind have any meaning?
I'm having MUCH better luck for my other child with his peanut allergy. I joined a group of mothers two years ago who are extremely proactive in protecting their children in the school as far as peanut exposure. Some mothers had not had any children in the system yet but because of what us already in the system experienced, they knew what they wanted and didn't want for their children once in the school system. It's amazing what a vocal group and letters and being PRESENT for meetings can accomplish.
The latest wrinkle is the bus. We were all set until I and the other mothers got a call from the superintendent of the school system two days before school started.
Seems the lawyers for the bus company got wind of their drivers being Epi-pen trained and felt a suit was imminent. They absolutely forbade ANY and ALL drivers from administering Epi-pens in an anaphalactic emergency. Even if the driver wanted to, if the driver saw that the child was in such distress and they could see the EMT's could not get there in time, they are NOT to intervene.
The Good Samaritan Law protects people from suit when they try to assist a person in a life threatening situation. It's not just for heroes who give life saving CPR. (ribs can be broken in that process) But that doesn't matter. No is No.
I went to a 504 meeting yesterday and was pleasantly surprised. The school system is actively seeking job applicants for the role of ... gee, what would their title be? Any bus that has a child riding in it with a LTA (Life Threatening Allergy) will have a trained person with knowledge of response protocol and Epi-pen usage and will ride the bus while these children are on it. My child has an Epi-pen on him at all times in his backpack in a designated pouch.
I was pleased and relieved with this alternative. In a few years it will be a non-issue when he can self-administer. But right now? He needs to rely on adults.
So, the school system is quite a see-saw. For one child, they are not doing their best and for the other, they are.
I think parenting these days is much tougher than my parents had it -- environment wise. We have more options but we also have more things to fight for and against.
I've been reading during this situation, but I have latched onto books as an escape. I don't want to do anything right now expect read. I want to read about HEA's and good triumphing over evil because in my own life, there isn't an HEA in sight, neither is evil clear cut...it exists in a shade of gray and it goes by the name of "the bottom line". It rules people who should care about the child but are tied to monetary shackles instead. The sad thing is...they don't seem to mind.
Does it matter that I do?
Saturday, September 06, 2008
Your result for The Geek or Chic Quiz?...
Lost with technology, lost in your own dizzy world. You are Chic and you know it but you couldn't send an email to save your life. Looks and social life are your driving force and nothing will stand between you and the clothing rail. Geek chic was so last year.
So, Which are you?
I find that my results aren't too accuate. I mean, I BLOG!!!!
Monday, September 01, 2008
Immortals: The Redeeming.
By: Jennifer Ashley
It is Tain's story and I really really am glad he got his HEA.
But that' s not my Boo & Hiss stance.
No. I read the blurbs for the new Immortal series coming out and I'm ticked.
In Tain's story, there were no foreshadowing of the new guys on the block. These are totally new guys. I don't remember anything ever being mentioned about them. Why not? How can thier existence be justified?
Five Immortals, Five Brothers, Five brothers got their HEA's, so what gives?
You know what I expected? What I wanted?
I want LOGAN'S story
He fascinated me. He has secrets. We were teased and it was hinted at. Septimus found out some dirt but not WHAT.
And no where is Logan's name mentioned in the up-in-coming blurbs.
So, I'm confused. Why not? And Boo & Hiss because he's not.
So, what's up, author Jennifer Ashley??
Will he be a sub plot?
Will he appear in the current series?
Will Logan ever get an HEA?
I'm pouting because it's likely I'll never know.