Observations and comments on subjects near and dear to me. Some funny, some serious, but to share them with you is an honor.
Sunday, February 04, 2007
The final Chapter
Unfortunately, that's not what I am referring to. I'm talking about a chapter in my life.
The end.
Change.
After four years of being the president of my church's Women's Club, today was my final function, The After The Holidays party. Today I said goodbye and relinquished control.
I was gratified to see that although 10 RSVP'd, 15 in total came to say goodbye. As far as they knew, not only was I stepping down along with my other officers but there was no one to take over. The end.
At the last minute, as of last week a potential victim *ahem/cough* candidate expressed interest. As late as YESTERDAY I got the word that she is serious. She doesn't have any officers truly picked but she has a pool of 8 women she knows she can talk to.
Heck that is MORE than I ever had, so I have high hopes. I was thrilled to be able to share this information with those present. They thought they were not only saying goodbye to me, but to the club as a whole. The news was met with a collective sigh.
They may yet say goodbye as I have a strong feeling that the Club is about to go in a new direction with a new focus. What they knew is gone. Women have changed in the last forty years.
I'm OK with that. I was a bridge from the old into the new. We tried many new things while trying to keep a handle on some of the old.
When we took on the job four years ago, we were left with under $100.00 to accomplish printings, mailings, entertainment and functions. Not much is it?
I am gratified that we are leaving our next in line with just under $1,000.00.
That's AFTER presenting our parish with four grand and setting aside monies earmarked for our scholarship program.
Major difference, wouldn't you say?
We learned to make edible and delicious pies from scratch.
We had book swaps.
Clothing sales.
Helped out needy families during Christmas.
We had a Living Rosary.
We went out to eat to celebrate in communion as Women in May - the month of Mary.
We had pie/bake sales.
We sponsored six children in Haiti.
We represented our parish and provided receptions after confirmations which usually included a Bishop or Monsiegnor
We have provided our families with a free Halloween party. Last year's party had most of the kids AND many adults dressed in costume. It was a blast.
Quite a few of these endeavors no one had done before.
There is much to be proud of.
The Best?
Community. Being able to walk into church and say 'Hi!", because these people are no longer strangers and nameless. They matter.
Ten years ago I was an outsider. I don't even live in the same town.
But now? Now I call many friends.
I'm a better person for knowing them.
My life has been greatly enriched with these new friendships and that is the biggest blessing of all.
The chapter closes with an epilogue of friends.
How grand.
I wanted to show you the beautful tulips and beany baby bear they gave me but dratted blogger isn't uploading pictures, AGAIN! Stay tuned. I will show them - when I can ...
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Friday, February 02, 2007
Snow!! We have SNOW!! Like Measureable!!!
Thursday, February 01, 2007
You think your kids have trouble?
Please readers, consider voting at the American Title III contest website. Every vote counts and after reading the entries, I really DO believe Kim's entry is stellar. *ahem* At least,that's my opinion. *grin*
Now for a new post:
All of the parenting How-To books talk about the trials and tribulations of our children trying to make friends while simaltaneously learning the social lessons to accomplish that feat. Many times they can only learn by doing.
Excuse me but, what about the PARENTS? I think we need lessons too.
What is the edicate for two adults meeting blindly over the phone because their two kids decided they wanted a play date?
Such was my case last Thursday.
My son called her son.
Within seconds, the phone is thrust in my face,
"Here Mom. You gotta talk."
"Talk? Talk about what? To who?"
"His Mom."
Totally bemused and confused I make small talk while rapidly scrambling to rearrange my mental schedule to make this playdate workable.
It was decided that the playdate would happen that Saturday afternoon. Morning was out because of a family obligation. (See my post about Reflection)
So, Saturday afternoon creeps towards us, my kids alternately bouncing from window to window, determined to be the first to spot the arriving guest.
Except the guest never shows.
No calls.
Nothing.
Being the good Mom, I call and I get this man who says, "She's not here".
"Well, she was supposed to bring her son to play with mine for 1:30. I thought if she needed directions or ..."
"Can't help you, she's not here, don't know where she is."
Hang up.
Well! That was a surprise and a major disappointment for my kids.
A few hours later I call again and ask for her. This time I get a younger male.
"She's not here."
'OH! Well, no problem. Is it alright if I leave a message for her?"
"Sure!" was the enthusiastic response AND THEN HE HANGS UP ON ME!!
Shocked again.
When my son goes back to school, I asked him if he saw the boy. He said "yes."
Of course I asked him why they never showed up.
He was told that "they were sick." "They" being mother and younger sister.
But that doesn't make sense does it? Why was I told both times I called that "she wasn't there"? What's wrong with telling me they were sick? I mean, it's a perfectly normal and legitimate reason for not coming on a playdate, right?
Guess what?
Today, a week later, my son comes and tells me the "REAL" reason why they didn't come over.
During the conversation, I mentioned RELIGION!!!!
That's all.
I guess that is enough to not only prevent her son from playing with my son, but to have the discourtesy of not bothering to call to tell me and my son that the play date was cancelled.
A whole Saturday afternoon was wasted when we could have done something as a family.
So, my question for you.
If someone mentions religion, is that enough to boycott a playdate?
And is lying to children and other adults justified because of it?
Monday, January 29, 2007
Share my Excitement! Meet Author Kim Howe
Such was the cyber-meeting of author Kim Howe. I'm tickled pink that not only was I able to ask her ANY question I wanted to, I also had the privilege of doing an INTERVIEW!
For the excerpts that had me revved and excited, check out her website.
http://www.kjhowe.com/
Folks, you know me by now.
I luurve my romances.
In them, I look for action or intrigue, emotional depth and the ability to connect with the characters as well as a sense of humor. But most of all, I look for my
all-important HEA.
Equally exciting is finding a new author and being able to share the thrill with you.
Today, I get to SHARE!!! *grin*
Come with me to meet author Kim Howe.
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M: In Red Diamond, the excerpt showed that you had a firm handle on the maneuverability of the plane. Your descriptions were precise and the visuals clear. Have you ever flown as a pilot?
KJ: My father is a private pilot who enjoys aerobatic competitions. I’ve been up in the plane with him in rather dicey conditions! I have taken a few flying lessons, but I haven’t pursued my pilot’s license yet—I’m hoping that I will in the future!
M: I found the initial meeting of the "priest" interesting. Right away, I had a sense that all was not as it appeared. The description of a man as "long and lanky" and his stride "swift and powerful" led me to anticipate an upswing in story intensity.
Those words have no part in describing any friendly parish priest that I ever knew. LOL!
KJ: Carson Lockwood definitely isn’t “priest” material. He’s a rakish anti-hero, the bad boy you can’t stay away from. He’s tracking down heroine Sierra Lazarus, but his demons aren’t far behind!
M: Is there a description that you'll use for a hero that is your personal favorite? Do you visualize an actor in the role of your male character heroes or are they pure imagination?
KJ: Every hero is unique and distinct for me. I visualize scenes (like a movie) in my mind that help bring the hero to life. Creating the hero is one of my favourite parts of writing. I love giving him a “Grand Canyon” size wound that only the heroine can heal! Sometimes an actor might come to mind, like Matthew McMonaughey, for example. J
M: You have your heroine in a violent part of the world where atrocities are common place. Why there? It truly felt as if you knew the subject, the politics, the risks. How'd you get the inside track on such a volatile and emotionally charged part of the world? Why choose to write about that?
KJ: I lived in Kenya for three years when I was a kid. Although there has been incredible political strife, the people have an amazingly resilient spirit. They are warm, caring, and hopeful, even in the most trying times. The simple things, like smiles and food are what matter to them. Africa is a magical place. When I returned to visit this summer, my love for Kenya was renewed and I knew that I wanted to set a book there.
M: Do you speak a bit of Swahili yourself from your time in Kenya? If not, what do you mostly use, people or books for your research or does it occur in equal parts?
KJ: I can order a cold beer in Swahili, but any in-depth conversation is beyond my skills! I use both books and people to insert language snippets into my novels. I always ask a local to look over my work to make sure I honor their language properly. Just like English, there are colloquialisms that only a resident would know.
M: As for False Dawn, DANG! That was heart wrenching! What inspired you to write that scene with the little boy? How hard was it to see that in your mind and put it into words? Does he live?
KJ: Mamadou, an eight-year-old boy from Chad, captured my heart. He made money for his family by selling sodas to the soldiers guarding a food depot. Desperate for money, he traipses out into the night to visit the soldiers. What he doesn’t know is that the soldiers are on guard, expecting an attack from rebel soldiers. In the blinding sandstorm, he is accidentally shot. The scene was heart-wrenching to write. I was trying to show that mistakes happen easily in a trigger-happy, war-torn place, even to good men. It still brings tears to my eyes when I read the scene. Mamadou doesn’t live, but his death changes the hero’s life forever.
M: I can only imagine everyone serving in Iraq and Afghanistan being able to relate to the patrolling scene...the sand, the discomfort. Indeed, the sand in the eyes scene had my own eyes hurting in sympathy pangs. How did you know?
KJ: My father worked in telecommunications, so we traveled a fair bit. In Saudi Arabia, we experienced several sand storms. As a Canadian, I’m used to white-outs, but brown-outs are a whole new experience. The sand is a lot grittier and harsher than snow! The sand bits are also smaller and get into everything. After a sandstorm, your front hallway will be covered in dust. It seeps into your mouth, your nose, everything!
M: The Mamadou scene is written from a guy's perspective. Did you bounce the ideas off of someone or interview a military guy? How far do away does your input come from? Local or across country or across the world? When it initially comes from your own mind, how do you imagine what a guy will say in reality? I wonder about that a LOT as men and women not only view a situation differently, but react to it differently AND their dialogue is diverse. Male dialogue is a stumbling block for me. Perhaps because I drive my DH nuts with MY "logic". *grin*
KJ: I grew up with two brothers and an adventurous father who included me in all the wild and crazy activities. My husband was in the military as well. My hero, Stille Rutger, is a French Foreign Legionnaire and I did a lot of research into that organization and the type of men who are drawn to it. With respect to point of view, men are visual creatures and they tend to live in the moment more than women. For some reason, I’m more comfortable writing from their perspective than my heroine’s! Maybe we should trade off? J
M: Where does the title One Shot, Two Kills come from? How about the phrase "Pig-ugly"?
KJ: My heroine Kenya Alexikova is a former U.S. Army sniper. One shot, one kill is the sniper motto. I played with it a bit to come up with One Shot, Two Kills. The title has significant meaning later in the book (I won’t ruin the surprise!).
Pig-ugly is the way Kenya describes the designer duds the tourists wear when they charter her scuba diving boat for the day. She comes from the Army, where high fashion means the dress uniform. The phrase helps characterize her in the reader’s mind. This girl prefers Glock over Prada!
M: Do you believe in an HEA for all your books?
KJ: Absolutely. Life is full of harsh realities and I try to capture them in my novels, but I read for escape and adore that feeling at the end of the book where everything is finally okay. Happily ever after will definitely be a guarantee with my novels. It might be painful for the characters to get there though. J
M: On your site, nowhere, that I could see, is there ordering info. The first chapters or prologue grips the reader which I'm sure you are glad to hear. But where can we find out what happens next? Will there be any contests for ARC's in the future besides the contest that is going on now?
KJ: I have signed with a wonderful agent—Evan Marshall—and we are working together to find my romantic suspense novels a home. I will definitely have different contests and giveaways on my website. In fact, to celebrate making the final four of the American Title III Contest, I’m having a KILL ME OFF draw. To enter, all you have to do is send me an e-mail via my website www.kjhowe.com with KILL ME OFF and your name. The lucky (???) winner will have his/her namesake meet an untimely demise in my next novel. I promise to make it an interesting event!
M: Will you be having a video commercial done to promote your book(s)?
KJ: Excellent question. I’m very interested in video commercials, podcasts, and all the other wonderful tools technology can offer.
M: The webpage banner is a work of art. Did you design it or have input in its final stage? My perception is that it captures the heat and intensity of your stories. Was that the goal or did you just like the look?
KJ: Thanks for the compliment. Shelley Kay from Web Crafters is my designer and I would highly recommend her. She read my work, had me fill out a detailed questionnaire, and designed a website that reflects the international/romantic/suspense aspects of my novels. The blue silhouettes inside the countries represent the mysterious side and the orange bursts reflect the adrenalin!
M: On your links, I saw Tess Gerritsen's name. Have you ever met her?
KJ: Yes, I had the pleasure of meeting her at Thrillerfest in Phoenix last year. She was also a guest speaker at Seton Hill University where I just graduated with a Master’s in Writing Popular Fiction degree. Tess Gerritsen is a warm and generous person who freely shares her ideas on writing. Her blog is also quite entertaining.
M: Do you mostly write solo or do you have a critique group that you bounce ideas off of?
KJ: My husband is my first reader, but I do have a few fantastic critique partners including fantasy writer Maria V. Snyder (Poison Study, Magic Study, LUNA), suspense expert CJ Lyons (upcoming Berkley medical suspense), and the prolific Debra Webb (Traceless, Nameless, St. Martin’s Press and many, many Harlequin Intrigues).
Thank you for inviting me to M’s Favourite things. I appreciate the lovely hospitality. If you have a moment, please drop by the American Title III Contest at http://www.romantictimes.com/news_amtitle.php and read the dialogue scenes... maybe my sniper heroine will be able to earn your vote?
Warm regards,
Kim/KJ
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Thank you SO much,Kim, for your patience and graciousness in letting me pester you with so many questions. :-)
I had as much fun meeting you and doing the interview as I had reading your excerpts.
I look forward to seeing your stories on my bookshelves soon.
Good luck with the American Title III contest!!
All the best to you,
Michele
Saturday, January 27, 2007
Pass this post if you don't like reflections

This is my rendition of the window we let people look through to see us. (pretty sad, I know)
Most times, we're zippered up pretty tight.
Very rarely do we let people see our hearts. The flame that is our soul, for those that believe in God.
Yep, I'm talking about faith. Not preaching.
Nope.
Sharing.
Today was our learning as a family and group about the Stations of the Cross. Never really knew much. And I'm not telling you anything about it except to say that at Station 10, Jesus has his clothes taken away. At the event, they had it acted out in REAL LIFE. The guy who played Jesus was... well... yum.
But I digress.
At the moment when they disrobed him, I was struck quite forcefully by the sight.
There was this man, covered head to knee and suddenly, he is standing there with nothing on but the loin wrap.
It made an impact. Once the reinactment was over we were given a task.
We were told to write a "moment of reflection".
We had 20 minutes.
I was inspired. The world faded away. By the time 20 minutes was up, I'd covered the page.
They had spotters in the audience and saw what I was doing ... taking it seriously.
I had to read it aloud to the audience!!!!!
This is what I wrote.
The figurative window through which we allow people to view us is protected.
We hide our vulnerabilities and wear the clothing, demeanor or use societies rules like armor.
When Jesus' clothes were taken from him, it struck like a spear into my own vulnerabilities. They were not just clothes that exposed the body of a man.
It was a ripping away of all that we cover ourselves with that hides our fears, insecurities, failures and guilt.
All is known to the Lord our God, even though we consciously or unconsciously end up forgetting that.
Upon viewing station 10, it forced me to confront my humanness and the fact that I can be just as vulnerable no matter what I say or do.
But Jesus didn't falter. He had the strength of his faith and love from and for his Father.
We too have that love. Even though our faith flectuates as we go through this journey of life, God's love is constant.
We need times of reflection to remember that being vulnerable is nothing to hide or be ashamed of.
Jesus experienced the ultimate exposure. He did it for us. For love of us.
Can we do no less?
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There was no time to edit. No time to proof read. Heck, when they nominated me, I hadn't even written the last two lines. Talk about finishing deadlines!
Afterwards, I got two thumbs up from the Deacon. Guess I did OK. I 've never written anything for public presentation, and I wasn't this time. But I'm glad it ended up being this way because it proved something to me.
I CAN write!
Friday, January 26, 2007
Book Review time
I lost everything. And NOW, Blogger won't let me upload pictures --- again!
Say it with me now ... "Grrrrrr!"
Three books. All recommends on various levels.
#1 level is a tie between DARKFEVER by Karen Marie Moning and Shards of Crimson - an anthology with Liz Maverick, Patti O'Shea, Carolyn Jewel and Jade Lee.
#2 Level is Your Planet of Mine? by Susan Grant.
DARKFEVER -Karen Marie Moning
Karen's book is about two main characters told in the first person POV. Mac and Jericho - man,I love that name. What they both are, we're never quite sure. What I do know is that they are characters that grabbed my attention and wouldn't let go. Karen had many inspired and LOL one-liners coming from Mac that I fell in adoration (*ahem* Love a guy, adore a female - call me quirky) with her character. Her journey is only beginning - which makes sense in that this is the first book in a new series . Already I can see hints about the person Mac will become, and I like it.
By the time the book ended, which may I say, was waaaay too soon, I was flipping pages furiously,eager to know what came next. Stayed up to midnight reading this one. It was worth the loss of sleep.
Sure, there is plenty of woo-woo factor, action and perplexion but there is also a delightful death-by-sex fae which I hope to see more of. *wink*
And do you know what else? Karen put in a Glossary at the back of the book. I had just as much fun reading that as the book itself. Leave it to Karen to make all aspects of her book fun.
This one delivers.
KEEPER!!
The second in the #1 tie is Shards of Crimson.
I have enjoyed my past visits to Crimson City and this one is no less riveting. It picks up with some characters that you have met in previous books and provided some much appreciated HEA's. Only one story gave me a "burp" on the believeability front ... that occured in the first three pages of the story. (Not saying which one ...nya-nya!)
From then on it smoothed out and ended up being an enjoyable and satisfying read.
School Bites by Jade Lee was truly inspired. Love the twist she put in with this... and the spice. LOL! Oh wow, what fun! - I'm thinking of the "conversion" process and it makes me giggle. THAT scene alone is enough for me to call this anthology a keeper.
The DX by Carolyn Jewel? Can we say YUM? As in, I would LOVE to see a pic of the man that inspired the description of Jaden. **sigh**
One word goes through my mind as I read this book: keeper-keeper-keeper.
#2 slot goes to Your Planet Or Mine? by Susan Grant.
I typically enjoy Susan's books and that includes this one.
Cavin is an alien visiting Earth with his Dad. Jana is an Earthling. They accidently meet when they're kids and fall in love within a few days time. But he leaves - hey, he's a kid and he did what his Dad told him to. Sort of.
Twenty three years later - they meet again. Only Caven's visit has much more important ramifications than just getting his girl back. There's a BIG picture involved. I also enjoyed Susan's version of Area 51. Nice twist.
The story is sweet, amusing and I enjoyed the dynamics of Jana's family. That was the best part for me, her family. Susan even had me feeling sorry for the bad guy.
I can't say this is a 'keeper' for me, but it is a must read. A feel-good read.
Susan usually gives the sweetest HEAs. In that, this one is no different.
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So folks, that's the scoop. It is NOT the exact post that I'd originally wrote, but it'll do .
Happy Friday to you. OH! And for those that aren't into books, may I offer:
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A Very Short Story
Man driving down road.
Woman driving up same road.
They pass each other.
The woman yells out the window, PIG!
Man yells out window, B I T C H!
Man rounds next curve.
Crashes into a HUGE PIG in middle of road and dies.
Thought For the Day: If only men would listen
Tuesday, January 23, 2007
Dueling Oldies and Theme Songs
I already went this route with Bailey.
Dueling musicals.
I think we bandied back and forth our knowledge of the lyrics to songs from Finian's Rainbow and Paint Your Wagon. Did we do the Sound of Music too? I don't remember.
What I DO remember is what a hoot it was.
The old show tunes are songs that stick with you and in various times in your life, you find yourself humming them. They drag you back into a point in your life that usually is pleasant. Most music is equated with positive things .... if your old EX was a jerk - the break up song was still positive - you escaped with your pride intact, right?
I cannot relate because the only guy I was actually ever serious about and who had the power to affect me is the guy I married. So, music for me is all good.
Everyone has music for the themes in their life:
Music to drive by -
music by Hair is good, Austin Powers *gg*, The old TV themes are great too , Magnum PI comes to mind, Starsky and Hutch, Hawaii 5-O , SWAT, Mod Squad - man those bring back memories, .
Inspirational -
Sound of Music, Paint your Wagon, The King and I, Meet me in St. Louis, Wizard of Oz, Xanadu, Oklahoma
Goofy -
Thoroughly Modern Millie, Finian's Rainbow, Singing in the Rain, Wizard of Oz
So, along the lines of music being a fun thing in your life, I thought of doing a crazy thing.
I Challenge you to name some song titles to match these headings:
Mine are:
The strangest name of a song?
Nee Nee Na Na Na Na Nu Na (1958)
The worst song to drive by?
Transfusion
The cutest song about something horrible?
The Blob
Songs about clothes ?
Short Shorts and Itsy Bitsy Teenie Weenie Yellow Polka Dotted Bikini
The stupidiest tragic love song?
Leader of the Laudromat.
Most confusing song title?
25 or 6 to 4
Worst song about eating?
Maneater
Song most likely to convince you to do the wrong thing?
Let's go all the way
Best Geek line in a song?
Good Golly Miss Molly
Best advice in a swamp?
See you later, Alligator
Best song when you have ants in your pants?
The hippy hippy shake
The song sung after a virgin's wedding night?
Love Hurts
Song to sing after closing down a bar?
Double Vision
Theme song for Turtle sex?
Slow Ride
Want to contribute any?? Different criteria or answers?
I'm all ears.
Monday, January 22, 2007
Sunday, January 21, 2007
Quiz for Oreos
Nope.
You have to earn your dessert.
What kinds of questions win you your cookies?
Who is buried in Grant's Tomb?
Name the Three Stooges.
Who's a famous trumpet player?
How many pennies make a nickel?
Who was the first President of the United States?
Even Mom got an answer right: How many states made up the first Colonies?
What sweet rewards when you get more than one right!
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Right now, we're watching THEM!!! They've just discovered the kids in the Los Angeles drain pipes. Oh no! James Whitmore discovered the Brood Odor.,. Condition Red!!!
LOL
Love that movie... you know, the one with the giant ants in the desert, mutated by the residual atomic radiation from the first underground bomb testings in 1945?
James Arness, James Whitmore, and guest spots by Leonard Nimoy and Fess Parker.
What a classic!


What a delightful day today was.
I didn't relax that much, but I'm OK, because for the first time in ....*cough* years, I have absolutely NO laundry to wash or hang pending for Monday. The day in mine! Mine, mine o' mine!
Woot.
I found the latest in the Crimson City series by Liz Maverick. I was so excited to find it. Plus there's a new book of the Sazi. Can't remember the name right now... I hid the book as I wasn't supposed to buy any today. *mischievous grin* and I'm typing in full view of everyone so let's be on the QT. OK?
But, I can't wait to read them!
Hey, I have a great nonsense tidbit that only parents with kids who play the Star Wars Lego Gamecube or Xbox-like computer games will even understand.
In the first Lego game, remember that scream the ship emits when you knock it out? - my kids do it on purpose because they think it sounds silly...
Guess what?
That sound is OVER 50 YEARS OLD!! How do I know that? Because James Whitmore just did that ARGH Squeal when the Ant got him!! 50 YEARS AGO AND THEY HAVEN'T COME UP WITH A NEW SOUND!
Can we say CLASSIC HORROR SOUND?
Here we are, watching a horror flick and we're laughing our butts off, including the kids.
"Hey! It's from the Lego Star Wars Game!!"
Isn't it great how old things are NEW??
*giggle*
Saturday, January 20, 2007
Did you know?
That statement sounds dramatic doesn't it?
Well that it should because death is dramatic, traumatic and heartbreaking when it occurs from anaphylactic shock due to exposure to Peanut Butter.
Such is my worry and fear for my little one.
FYI - Plain M & M's are NOT safe. Even though they don't have an actual peanut in them, they are processed on equipment that has made products with peanuts in them.
Factories do not clean their equipment/machinery between batches of candy, cookies and various forms of processed foods. It would not be cost effective and I understand that.
But as a mom with a peanut sensitive child, they make it very hard to protect him.
Go to the grocery store and check out the cookie packages. More than 90% have the warnings.
Same with candy.
I don't buy ANYTHING edible made in China. There's been too many slip ups and they don't consistently follow USA safety standards. If they can get away with it, they do.
I remember the Gel Lollipop (like a jelly bean consistency) that had peanut oil in it a couple of years ago. There was no allergy warning label and of course someone had to be rushed to the ER because of it. (They are also infamous for lead content)
Some, not mine Thank God, are so sensitive, the AIR borne proteins in a room would be enough to initiate anaphylactic shock. That's why airlines have to be SO careful and parents need to notify them prior to flight.
The oils left on a table where a PB & J sandwich was eaten is enough to cause a problem too.
The cross contamination occurs in jelly beans, generic pancake mixes, certain ramen noodle type packages, animal crackers, ALL of the store brand cookies I've ever seen, and movie theater popcorns.
This is just a pinky nail's worth of my check list.
How did this come up? I was visiting Brandy and left her this HUGE comment on her blog, a portion of it explaining about the play date that is happening this morning.
I much prefer a nonallergy child to come here to play so I can know My child is safe. I can't control his safety outside the home in a place where the parent, no matter how much I repeat the warnings, JUST DOESN'T GET IT!
I cannot nor will not except the excuse "I forgot" or "I'm just not used to thinking about that" or "It's OK, I had them eat at opposite sides of the table".
I understand it's not their normal routine, however, my child's life IS on the line. I cannot accept these excuses.
What about medication?
Epi-pens go everywhere he goes. How many people are educated in the application of an Epi-pen? Why should they be if they have no one around them that has food allergies? How many parents want to be taught just so this child can come over to play with their child?
I'll tell you something. If you don't know anyone now, you will. The increase of food allergies among children is rising at an alarming rate and no one understands why.
Schools are adopting Food Allergy policies and that is a step in the right direction. I belong to a group of mothers who have done that in our school system. We do it not just for OUR kids but for all the youngin's coming after.
We want our children to have a future and we're doing what we can in our little way to insure that.
Food Allergies are not the same as seasonal Hay Fever.
It has the potential to be more than hives, sneezing and itchy skin.
It is nothing to laugh at and say "Deal" or "he/she'll out grow it." Most never do, at least with Peanuts.
Unlike tree pollen or rag weed, Milk, Tree nuts, Peanuts, Wheat and Soy have the power to kill.
Of anything from my post, I hope that I've made you aware and perhaps understand.
Thursday, January 18, 2007
Update on Dog trouble
The dog handler called me at work.
I spoke with the pediatricians office at home.
Spoke with the head of the Children's Services at the Libary.
This event has motivated a lot of people to make changes in the program. I seriously hope that Gus the dog will not be "decommissioned" as he is generally a well mannered and patient animal. The circumstances that preceeded the incident were unusual and unexpected.
There's only supposed to be a one to one ratio - dog:child. When a dog didn't show, instead of disappointing a child, they thought they'd double them up.
Well, no one took into account the fact that first graders, especially ones that have no experience with animals, don't understand that their version of 'playing' was actually teasing. Also, their energy levels are higher when they feed off of each other and get goofy.
After six kids in two hours, poor Gus had had enough and he "Woofed" his complaint. Tragically, my little one was at the wrong place/wrong time and a woof made with an open mouth (which is LARGE on a Sheperd) exposed a tooth in direct contact with my son whose face was angled low in place for the point of impact.
That's as near as we can figure. So many are concerned, are caring and proactive in this situation. I am very pleased with how its being handled.
On a good note, my little guy, after hearing us talk about what 'might have happened' last night, must have thought about it because he came to me this morning.
"Mom, I'm kind of feeling sorry for Gus."
I'm like... awwwww. This is a good thing as it means he's not only calmed down, but he's on the way to forgiving the dog. So MY fear of him being terrorized by dogs for the rest of his life has a good chance of not happening. AND he did not have any nightmares last night.
*whew!*
So, hopefully that fills in all of you who have shown such support and voiced caring words on my blog. Thank you!!
ON A LIGHTER NOTE:
As a trucker stops for a red light, a blonde catches up. She jumps out of her car, runs up to his truck, and knocks on the door. The trucker lowers the window, and she says "Hi, my name is Heather and you are losing some of your load." The trucker ignores her and proceeds down the street.
When the truck stops for another red light, the girl catches up again. She jumps out of her car, runs up and knocks on the door. Again, the trucker lowers the window. As if they've never spoken, the blonde says brightly, "Hi my name is Heather, and you are losing some of your load!" Shaking his head, the trucker ignores her again and continues down the street.
At the third red light, the same thing happens again. All out of breath, the blonde gets out of her car, runs up, knocks on the truck door. The trucker rolls down the window. Again she says "Hi, my name is Heather, and you are losing some of your load!" When the light turns green the trucker revs up and races to the next light.
When he stops this time, he hurriedly gets out of the truck, and runs back to the blonde. He knocks on her window, and after she lowers it, he says...
"Hi, my name is Kevin, it's winter in Ohio and I'm driving the SALT TRUCK!!!!
Have a Great Night!! And thanks for stopping by!
Wednesday, January 17, 2007
More Men in Suits!!

I wanted to add more to my earlier post, but once again, Blogger stopped me from not only adding more that day, but stopped me from posting pictures for a couple of days beyond that.
Well, I'm a persistent kitty and here are the ones I couldn't post before. My personal fav, Nathan Kamp
AND
One of which is courtesy of Isabella.
She has VERY nice taste, don't you think?
The new Bond.
And now, a I'll share an email I received all the way from snowy Colorado.
Rumors ...... nasty little buggers.
Keep this philosophy in mind the next time you hear or
are about to repeat a rumor.
In ancient Greece (469 - 399 BC), Socrates was widely
lauded for his wisdom. One day the great philosopher
came upon an acquaintance that ran up to him excitedly
and said, "Socrates, do you know what I just heard
about one of your students?"
"Wait a moment," Socrates replied.
"Before you tell me,
I'd like you to pass a little test.
It's called the Test of Three."
"Test of Three?"
"That's correct," Socrates continued. "Before you talk to
me about my student, let's take a moment to test what
you're going to say. The first test is Truth Have you made
absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?"
"No," the man replied, "actually I just heard about it."
"All right," said Socrates. "So you don't really know if
it's true or not. Now let's try the second test, the test
of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my
student something good?"
"No, to the contrary..."
"So," Socrates continued, "you want to tell me something
bad about him even though you're not certain it's true?"
The man shrugged, a little embarrassed. Socrates continued,
"You may still pass though because there is a third test, the
filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my
student going to be useful to me?"
"No, not really."
"Well," concluded Socrates, "if what you want to tell me
is neither True nor Good nor even Useful, why tell it to
me at all?"
The man was defeated and ashamed and said no more.
This is the reason Socrates was a great philosopher
and held in such high esteem.
It also explains why Socrates never found out that
Plato was banging his wife.
******************************************************************
BTW- I believe I mentioned that my little one was going to read to the dogs? He is always SO excited about it. We even went to the library really early to get some extra books to read. It started off so well, ended in heartbreak. Dog bit my son in the face. Not a deep gouge, Thank God, but it's right above his cheek bone.
Now, he's terrified. I don't blame him, German Shepards are big. The woman was so apologetic, was horrified and fortunately, the mom of the other little boy that was there is the head of the library's Childrens Services. I don't have to explain what happened - she's going to initiate whatever process needs to happen when something like this occurs.
So, now I have to watch out in the next 24 hours for infection, have to file a report and have to contact the handler's insurance. What a fiasco! What heartbreak for my son. What a rotten way to end a Wednesday.
Hope yours was better!!!
Hmmm, maybe that's why blogger let me post pictures...felt sorry for me?
Naw.
Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Winter! I saw evidence of Winter!
Real snow.
Fat floating flakes that disappeared like magic as soon as they touched a blade of grass grown unnaturally green from rains accompanied by mild to balmy temps more suited to warmer climes.
The air was a crisp but bearable 38 degrees when I headed off to work but as I watched out our little window, the winds whipped the trees and swirled the dead leaves to bring a surprise.
A teeth chattering, body shivering and "Quick, where are my gloves?!" panic ensued as soon as I took five steps out of the building. The temperature had dropped in five hours to 20 degrees and who knew what the wind chill was. I wouldn't be surprised if it hadn't been in the single digits.
It is now 10:30 PM and the wind chill is 4 degrees. Brrrrrr.
I had gone out earlier so I knew the only warmth I'd find was tucked inside my coat. You see, I'd ventured out to the library, hoping to get a hour or so of writing in. My quiet time. My escape. My focus.
The cold was more of a shock to my system than I realized. I arrived at the library with enthusiam only to be stunned by the fact that my notebook had been left at home.
Oh no! All my goals for today - shot.
What's a girl to do?
Go shopping. Seriously.
Last night, I was on a website for writers where I read that I should really have a handle on my backstory. Sounded like a good idea so I jotted down a few paragraphs to keep things in focus. Nothing is as confusing to a reader than finding that the rules of a story have changed in mid stream. Not that a book could get published with that blaring gaffe....
One odd thing about backstory is the idea you flesh out can be just as interesting as the story you are currently writing. My "few paragraphs" turned into three pages worth and, get this,
I solved the riddle of why Atlantis not only disappeared, but why there is no trace of it. **grin**
Did I set out to do that? No.
Did I know where I was going with it? No.
It took me on a journey I never expected.
Atlantis was never supposed to be involved. I'm still scratching my head about that one.
So, no writing today. I will do it tomorrow. Little guy is reading to the dogs tomorrow and that is MY time. How much can you write in a half hour anyway?
We'll see.
Stay WARM!!!
Monday, January 15, 2007
How Does a Drunk Chicken Get Home??
I originally found this fun and off the wall humorous site via Markoos.
Now I visit on my own and I never know what to expect. This one tipped over my giggle meter. Check it out!
Sunday, January 14, 2007
Men in Suits
There is something about a man in a suit that captures our attention and our imagination.
What is it about a suit? What does it do to a man that makes us take a second or even a third look as we pass them on the street, in a restaurant, office building or the ever popular wedding environment?
Maybe it's the lure of being the one to unravel that perfectly tied tie? To open the jacket, slip our hands in and find out what such fine cloth is hiding? Why do we trust a man with a suit versus one in low slung jeans? A man in a suit is just as likely to run a scam against you as the rebel searching for a clue.
So, I went A-Googling. Haven't done that in awhile. I found some men in suits that just about had me sighing in appreciation. I am no closer to the answer of "WHY", I only know that it does.
Look at these pictures and tell me why YOU think men in suits are hot.

Um, and perhaps even, why NOT. *gg*

See? Even way back then, a man was a man when he donned that suit and tie.
How serious he is.
How intense.
How commanding.
and handsome, can I say Handsome?

Ah, yes. the Fitting.
Not too sure exactly what type of suit this is, or from what country. It can't be in America.
England perhaps? Italy?
Either way, it's a very sophisticated picture.
The collar is strange, but the profile of the fitee is delish.
Oooh, yeah baby... the ultimate in macho suits is last. You cannot look me in the cyber-eye and tell me that these gentlemen aren't , what's the latest term? , The Bomb, in these chic duds.
I give you the Men in Suits that set the standard:


So, this is the end of my journey. Yes, there were other choices. These guys are the cream of the crop. Mostly. Can't get over wearing a gallon hat with a suit. *gg*
Saturday, January 13, 2007
Quiz-aholic strikes again!
Hope you have fun if you take any of these.
Your Mind is PG-13 Rated |
![]() Your mind is definitely a little dirty. You're naughty, but not trashy. You don't shy away from a dirty joke, and you're clearly not a prude. |
This quiz does NOT do me justice. Nope, not at all.
Slow and Steady |
![]() Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It'd really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively or on the spur of the moment. They expect you to examine everything carefully from every angle and then usually decide against it. |
Now, this one is more like it!!!
You Are a Centaur |
![]() In general, you are a very cautious and reserved person. However, you are also warm hearted, and you enjoy helping others in practical ways. You are a great teacher, and you are really good at helping people get their lives in order. You are very intuitive, and you go with your gut. You make good decisions easily. |
Friday, January 12, 2007
Pictures! I have pictures!


Celebrate!! I can post pictures!!!

Ah, yes. How I felt about not being able to post pictures.
I swear, even chocolate couldn't have made me happy, but posting pictures?
Yes!!
Enjoy my joy!
And as for writing .... today I checked my word count. I'm up to 8,484 words!! Is this OK to qualify as a WIP??
Thursday, January 11, 2007
A Book Blog Post without Pictures
May the Blogger techs have hairy Cyber-fleas and power spikes on the ol' whazoo until they correct the glitches!!
Grrrrr.
Sorry, that's the best curse I can do right now, LOL.
Why am I griping instead of talking about a great new author?
I can't upload pictures. Says Error on page - dang it! It affects both my blogs - so no pictures until Bloody Blogger gets its act together.
I told you I'd do a honorable mention of the new author I discovered who writes about vampires in a way that has grabbed my interst and held it captive. He's written other books, but I'm a vampire book junky - sort of. Not Goth or anything, just like the mythical possibilities ....
Anyway.
His Name is CHARLIE HUSTON.
How did I find him? Strange story, that. I was at the library (where else?) and the librarian says to me,
"You read a lot of vampire fiction, don't you?"
-- "Uh, yeah, I do ..."
"Well, see that guy over there? He's looking for recommendations. Think you could talk to him?
So, she called him over and we proceed to discuss Laurell K. Hamilton and L.A. Banks - I figured that they were the grittiest I knew of - I mean, I was referring books to a guy and what guy wants to read vampire ROMANCE? I was trying to "think like a guy" ( lost cause *wink*) and I'm not sure how influential I was but he recommeded to ME, Already Dead. He actually went and got it for me, which I thought was really nice. I checked the book out, read it and was "Wowed".
Like I said, Mr. Huston's first vampire book is, Already Dead.
Wanna see what Mr. Huston Looks like? Click HERE
Interested in reading the Booklist Reviews 2005 August #1 ? Click (BOOKLIST)
I just picked up his latest - No Dominion. The Review is HERE
I haven't read it yet, but I can't wait.
I enjoyed this different (for me) take on vampires. Not sure if there will Ever be a romance between Joe and his ..... female interest but you know what? It's not necessary. (Well, I'm an HEA junkie too, so I like the 'anticipation' of the possibility *grin*)
The plot, the characters and the journey are entertaining enough which means that I'm not missing the emotional romantic roller coaster. Maybe in time, Joe might get a little gritty in the sleeping quarters but only Charlie Huston knows. Until then, I'm enjoying watching Joe and the things that get thrust upon him.
I say! If you like Jim Butcher's Harry Dresden, you might really like Charlie Huston's Joe Pitt too. Really!
Dang, I miss posting pictures of the book covers.
*pouts*
Be that as it may, please make me feel better, humor me and click a link or two.
Better yet, give the book(s) a whirl!
Saturday, January 06, 2007
Blah-blah/-blah~
I do.
Went to see Night at the Museum today. EVERYONE loved it. I picked a winner for the whole family. Brandy had said it was good, Wow! She wasn't kidding. There were so many inspired moments of halarity, that when it comes out on DVD, it's getting added.
Never, Ever, Never Ever look up Chupacabra on Wikipedia no matter HOW much your child begs you to. Even if the badgering lasts for over an hour and a half, RESIST!!
Do not let them see the picture, read the fact that they've been seen all the way up into MAINE and that they suck blood. A word to the wise. Don't Do it!!!!
Advice - take down your Live Christmas Tree Before it drys out. LONG before it dries out. It's like playing with a prickly hedgehog when you are trying to get off all the ornaments that you convenienlty stuck Waaay inside so as to pick up all the pretty sparkling lights in and around the tree. Because, when you wait Too long, the branches droop down, get really stiff and horribly prickly/scratchy and make you regret that moment of "genius" when you decorated. Dried up branches do NOT release their treasures lightly, let me tell you. I have the rashes on my arms to prove it!
Finally, has ANYONE else had the priveldge of having been sent via email - and has viewed (numerous times), the pictures of the naked and painted cyclists?
I mean, HOW COME THIS NEVER MAKES THE NEWS CASTS?? Oh yeah, the "naked" part might be the reason.
Even the guy's dangly bits are painted pretty colors. I liked the blue and purple dangly, except, truthfully, no one actually dangled. They were cute "little" things. *wicked giggle* Piggies in a blanket?
The women look more artistic - like the naked pregnant lady with the giant sunflower painted on her very pregnant belly.
Well? Have you been sent it yet? Your eyes can't be the same again once you have. I mean, who does these things?
The better question would be ... HOW FLIPPEN EARLY DID THE PEOPLE LINE UP ON THE STREET TO GET THE "BEST" SEATS???
It was mobbed!
This Had to have been an event in California. Where else is it that warm that you can cycle naked and not become a giant goosebump?
Gee, maybe in New England this winter? It reached 70 degrees today. Is this nuts or what?
LOL. So much for the Farmer's Almanac.
Tuesday, January 02, 2007
Books of the future
Jaid Black, the Queen of Steam has no less than four books coming out in 2007. She has MORE than four and quite a few that will deal with her Trek series. Can I say EXCITED?
LKH has the Harlequin coming out later this year. And the buzz and hints she's been sharing has me positively chomping at the bit.
Samantha Graves/C. J. Barry has her first contemporary coming out in a few months. Yippee!
Warlord, the last in the Warprize trilogy by Elizabeth Vaughn is coming out in March. So, I am keeping an eye our for that.
Jill Monroe has one coming out in February but the word is out that it may come out sooner. Yeah! I have every one she's written so far, and this will join it's mates soon enough.
Jayne Ann Krentz has a cross over book coming out that I have been waiting for. It's the first of its type for her, so she's a tad nervous. I bet it'll do just fine.
Nina Bangs just told me that she recently submitted a book to her publisher. If all goes well, I hope to have a great time reading her latest towards the end of the year. She's never let me down yet.
J.R. Wards' Lover Revealed is coming out too. Michelle B at Romance By the Blog has read the ARC and she's all excited about it. Will she share hints and spoilers? Nope, not yet, although we keep schmoozing her to give us a taste, LOL. What a great buzz.
Lucy Monro has a new werewolf book coming out that is generating some awesome reviews. I love me my paranormal and since she is SUCH a romantic romance author, this book has GOT to be good.
Sherrilyn Kenyon's Dream Hunter book is coming out any day. Lust drives me crazy over those Dark Hunters and their world.
I think there's going to be one final Crazy book from Tara Jenson .... or did I read it already. Geesh, now I don't remember. What a great series that was in 2006. Sad to think it might be over.
E authors, Lauren Dane, Daisy Dexter Dobbs, Savannah Jordon, Ann Cory, Jaci Burton, Megan Hart, Diana Bold, Rene Lyons, and quite a few others have some wonderful offerings that only enhance the reader experience. Makes me VERY glad I have a computer.
I realize that there are at least 15 more books whose titles I've missed, or authors left unnamed. That doesn't mean that they'll go unread.
2007 promises to be a year where I'll be glad I'm working - all the more to support my habit.
*VBG*
Oh! Did I forgot Karen Marie Moning's new series?
Christina Dodd?
Robin T. Popp?
Robin D. Owens?
P.C. Cast?
Lynn Viehl?
OH! And I discovered a new Vampire author - a guy! It's gritty and interesting and fun and dirty and scary and , and ..... I'll tell you all about it next post.
Bwhahahaha!!!!
Sunday, December 31, 2006
Aurevoir to 2006

Here we are again folks, time to say goodbye on another New Year's Eve. This is my second in blogland and I have to say, this past year was better than the year before. Sure, my Christmas sucked because of that virus, but that doesn't represent the whole year.
I'm ending it on a healthier note, so all is good and upbeat and hey, we have 1/99th of a inch of snow on the ground. How cool is that? Oh about 28 degrees worth, LOL.
I have made some wonderful new blog buddies, met some incredibly talented authors -{{ one for whom I need to do a shout out about her book - Savannah Jordan's ,Sacreligious - I finally read it and I LOVED it!! She makes Anubis to be one sexy Egyptian god. *whew!* }}, I have a MySpace place, I found a new job which I'm alovin' and my little one finally started losing teeth, much to the astonishment of the Tooth Fairy.
I would like to ask, of all the New Year's Resolutions that you'll make, which one would you most likely keep?
I kept the one and only one I made last year - To make a man/eye candy blog-*grin* but this year, I have to be a bit more adult about it.
I am making only TWO (2) resolutions.
I WILL LOSE 10 POUNDS AND I WILL FINISH WRITING A STORY!!

Some of our New Years Resolutions can be quite unrealistic at times.
My idea, coming from the avid romance reader inside me, is a simple wish for you.

Of course, since one of my resolutions is one of THE most common ones - to lose weight - I mean, my DH lost 25 lbs after he made his in 2006 and he's a great inspiration for me - I want to have to have a least a back door wish in anticipation of my less than ideal results .....

*giggle* No, seriously, I wouldn't REALY wish this because I am sure I'm not the only one thinking about doing the same thing - (losing weight!) but the kitty is just so Adorable about it, don't you think?
I hope your celebrations this evening are memorable, wild but safe, and filled with the best of wishes of your family and friends.
You have mine.
Happy New Year for 2007!!
Tuesday, December 26, 2006
A cheap UpBeat post

The day after the holidays is always the toughest.
How many of you feel a little like this?
*giggle*
When you look at all the wrapping paper strewn all over your house, all the new gifts or the left over food and all the chores undone, do you feel a little ...
Overwhelmed and bombarded?
*snicker*
Tis nae tribble at'll.
Call the Cleaning Fairy!
Some items she'll be using are:
Happy Tuesday Dec. 26th!
Oh! And Happy Kwanza - starts today I believe.
TTFN
Psst. Fever broke late last night. Yea!
Sunday, December 24, 2006
A wish for you

Wishing you a Merry Christmas.
I don't have the concentration to do a full fancy post. Went to ER last night. Looks like I'm spending the whole weekend at home, in bed, with pain med's. 102.9 fever the highest. (Virus)
Please have a wonderful, exciting and happy time this Christmas ... , I'm counting on you to have lots of fun!
And stay healthy!
OH, Remember I said that there was voting going on at the RBL Site? Nathan didn't stand a chance. The winner by 121 votes is ......

Adrian Paul.
Nice choice, but maybe next year?
*grin*
Tuesday, December 19, 2006
Hey! My new Camera Works!!!!!

As you can see,
NO SNOW!!!

A FLOWER IN WINTER!!
I WAS SHOCKED TO SEE THIS LONE FLOWER STILL BLOOMING PROUD ON DEC. 19TH IN NEW ENGLAND!!

MY SEEs CANDY FROM BRANDY! I GUARANTEE YOU THAT MOST OF THE CANDY YOU SEE THERE WON'T BE THERE MUCH LONGER, LOL!
AND THE BOOK MARK SAYS "FREINDSHIP".
I LOVE MY NEW CAMERA!!
Monday, December 18, 2006
Where's the snow?

The snow most certainly can't be found on this side of the country.
It's been balmy and warm. Flies still manage to find their way indoors to buzz and bug us ad naseum. Despite the lights, the music, the crowded malls and the money flying out of our bank accounts with disturbing ease, The Spirit of Christmas is alive and well.
Today, me and my friend, "P", whom I've not seen since Halloween, went out to breakfast then shopping. At the moment we started backing out of our parking spot to head home, I noticed this little old lady struggling to get a box out of a shopping cart. The long box was almost as big as she was! I could see that she wasn't having an easy time of it, so pointed her out to "P" and said,
" I think she's going to need help."
That's all I had to say.
"P" parked that truck so fast, I had whiplash. LOL
I got out and offered her my help.
Nothing lights up your day more than seeing a sweet smile of surprise on the recipient of your good intentions.
She was so grateful and her hearty "Merry Christmas!" had more meaning in it than the phrase had only five minutes before.
This qualifies as one of M's Favorite Things.
The day couldn't get much nicer ... or so I thought.
I checked my mail box when I got home and something wonderful was waiting.
My blog buddy, Brandy, sent me a little surprise!! Which means that my day got even better.
What was inside?
A beautiful book mark! How well she knows me. *grin*
It's a perfect fit.
And...
and a box of irrisistable diet busting candy from SEEs!!! You have NO idea how hard it is to get SEEs candy around here. The last time I had some of their candy was ..... oh, about three years ago.
So for all the blogworld to see, I say , "THANK YOU, BRANDY!"
I'm continually humbled by the wonderful people that populate blogland.
How'd I get so lucky??
PS
If I figure out how my new Christmas present works from my DH, I might post a picture of the book mark!!
Woot!
PPS
Hope your shopping is almost done!
The reindeer are getting anxious. *gg*
Wednesday, December 13, 2006
The final farewell - American Veteran
And it is long. There is nothing about what I saw, felt and did that a short post could do justice to.
First, I love my job. An intricate emotional level was recently added which gave my position a surprising depth. What happened yesterday made this more than a job.
I have to be vague, but I can share the sentiment.
What is sadder than death?
How about;
Death without anyone to care for your passing. No one to attend your funeral, no one to shed a tear and say, "You'll be missed."
What makes this worse?
The deceased was a military man. He valiantly served our country in WWII and he died with no one to mark his passing.
Tragically, that happens more than you may realize. More than I realized. However, I was able to make a small difference. For one moment. For one man or, at least, his soul.
Last week, I was given the task of arranging a military funeral for this war vetern. The decision of what would happen would be mine. I'd never done such a thing before and was a little nervous. The lady who worked there was exceptional and helped make the process smooth. I had to make a few decisions but she took care of the rest. I had no idea what constituted "the rest", but I figured we would find out.
Most of the honor guards are volunteer retired military vets and there were two choices based on their avalibility, to have the honor guard and (if volunteers avaliable) a gun salute.
If I don't use the right words, forgive me. I'm was a tad overwhelmed.
I chose the the gun salute to go with the honor guard and I said that we would provide the prayer service.
Me saying prayers? I have NEVER done such I thing. What was I thinking?!!
Yesterday, I , my boss and my co-worker went to the Military Cemetary.
Prior to leaving, I had asked my boss what we were going to say for our part in the service.
Turns out no one really thought conciously about it. Seems none of us had ever done such a thing before.
I'm not sure what made me do it, that mad dash of "grab and go", but I snagged my Bible before I left for work.
A frantic call to my parish priest from the office garnered a dictated prayer that he would've said himself for a deceased military vet started things off. My boss got that one, my co-worker suggested Psalm 23 and I found by flipping pages ,the Psalm 116. It touched me, spoke to me ... and in that moment, I knew. We were ready. I was ready.
The sun gave us unseasonable warmth and a blue sky greeted us as we got out of our cars.
The chapel had military personnel flanking the doors, which they opened upon our arrival. Flags of all our military branches lined one side of the room. In front was a rather large picture window which encompassed the majority of the wall. It faced a field of grass still green and lush. We could see a cement walkway in the form of a "T" situated in the middle of our outside view.
The atmosphere inside seemed to touch us with a respectful and sombre air. You had a sense that the chapel seemed filled with pride in the vets it has honored in the past. Patriotism doesn't die with death.
The sound of our voices seemed out of place. None of us felt like talking.
When the service started, beautiful words were voiced - full of respect and gratitude for the years this man gave to our country and its freedom. In front of us, through the huge window, we watched men in full uniform march in formation heading for that cement "T" we had noticed. They had the rifles for the salute. Have you ever seen this done? It reaches the American Patriot inside us all when this honor is experienced first hand. Watching it on TV buffers us from the emotion and we miss out because of it. Seeing the flare of orange as the guns discharge makes an impact on your senses.
Then it came to our turn. My boss was quite eloquent and heartfelt. She had gotten to know the man and thought he'd been a sweatheart. Hers was the personal touch that this man deserved. My friend read her choice, Psalm 23. Then came mine. I'd only read it once in my mind and now I was about to stand up and voice this outloud. Would it reach out and touch more than just me?
Psalm 116
Thankgiving to God Who Saves From Death
I love the Lord, who listened
to my voice in supplication,
Who turned an ear to me
on the day I called.
I was caught by the cords of death,
the snares of Sheol had seized me;
I felt agony and dread.
Then I called on the name of the Lord,
'O Lord, save my life!"
Gracious is the Lord and just;
yes, our God is merciful.
The Lord protects the simple;
I was helpless, but God saved me.
Return, my soul, to your rest;
the Lord has been good to you.
For my soul has been freed from
death,
my eyes from tears, my feet from
stumbling.
I shall walk before the Lord in the land of the living.
My boss turned to me once I sat back down, leaned over and whispered. " Thank you" in a hushed and choked voice. I wasn't alone in my feelings about Psalm 116.
The honor guard then proceeded to open the side doors to the outside air. Within moments came the haunting and emotional tribute of TAPS. The crisp and clear notes of two bugles, one slightly delayed that seemed to resemble an echo of Patriots past carried on the gentle breeze as it swirled in from the open doors until the last notes drifted away.
Goose bumps raised on my arms and tears formed in my eyes. A fitting tribute to a man that never should have been forgotten. Never should have died so alone after what he gave for all of us so long ago.
At that moment, not only was I proud to do this for a fellow American, but felt immensely blessed to have a job that could provide this human touch, this act of kindness.
How'd I get so damned lucky?
The presentation of the flag is a study in respect, honor and pride. The presentation of the bullet casings was unexpected and appreciated.
Yesterday had a big impact on me.
Can you see why I couldn't do a short post about this?
Why I had to post this?
I don't want to forget.
Sunday, December 10, 2006
I had a WHOOPS moment
As you may be aware, I'm on MySpace. They have initiated a new feature, their own IM product.
So, I downloaded it and sent a bulletin out to the 40 friends I have listed. Only three have activated the program so my options of chatting are severely limited.
Imagine my surprise tonight when I connected!
Oh, was I excited. I got to talk books! Romance books. My MySpace "friend" reads Nora Roberts. So we started comparing notes on authors and themes. I had mentioned that I enjoy romances that have Navy SEALs.
I was asked what the allure was about Navy SEAL romances.
My response garnered this comment, "SEALs do tend to have it all, smart, built as well as usually dark and handsome."
Oh , yes, this fellow reader new what was what.
I agreed and said that I enjoyed sexy vampires, werewolves and a sexy elf thrown in for good measure too . We talked paranormal romances versus contemporaries.
So, there I was, typing blythly along when WHAM! One little phrase made me sit up and take notice.
Guess what?
My IM MySpace friend?
WAS A GUY!!!!!!!!!!
Whoops!
Frantically I'm rereading all that I wrote about sexy Vikings, Vampires and muscle cars and I'm starting to blush to the roots of my hair.
Oh my!
A guy who reads romance? Ima thinking maybe he's going to make a wonderful and attentive husband someday.
I keep telling myself this to help get over the mortification.
So, um, this is funny, right?
Saturday, December 09, 2006
I'm a RBL
That I was a RBL.
Romance Book -lover.
Sure you did. What you may not know, and only care about if you are a romance book reader, is that there is a site out there in Blogland that caters to the author and reader alike. It's a very well mannered but highly energetic group of women who know how to enjoy all aspects of romance novels.
A lady I met two years ago who owns a UBS introduced me to it.
On Romance by the Blog, Michelle B's site, she had romantica, erotic romance authors visiting to give us their understanding of that part of the genre. Jaid Black was there, Robin Schone and Emma Holly.
Pretty high powered stuff. Look in my links under Michelle B's blog and you'll get to see it.
The reason I'm bringing up the RBL aspect is that Emma Holly IS a RBL. If I'm not mistaken, so is Karen Marie Moning. Right now, we are voting on the best male model. The contest is only days away from closing. There are 4 finalists. Adrian Paul and Nathan Kamp being my favorite two to choose from.
Are you curious about the best kept secret for Romance Book Fans out there?
Remember, this place is fun BUT respectful. They don't allow snarkiness because once you are there for awhile, you are like family. These ladies see the best in people and are supportive when bad things hit the "family". You just want to cyber-hug all of them. I've even met a fellow RBL - and they are as sweet in person as they are online.
Visit a RBL today!
Just so you can see what is a stake here, these are three out of the four nominees:



What do you think???
Thursday, December 07, 2006
A Test of Personality
A pencil and paper?
Try this Tibetin Personality Quiz. http://memoriter.net/flash/test.html
I'll let you know what I got.
I have pride in my family, but career comes before love, but thankfully, Money comes last.
My personality is furry, my partner is cute, sex is my nirvana and my life is pleasant.
I botched the colors as far as I'm concerned. And my lucky number? Ha! Only if that was my harem.
It didn't take long to do this. Even with Dial-up.
I hope you get more entertaining results than me.
Dang, I almost did resluts again. Must be all that thinking of Nirvana.
LOL
Time flies
My hours are getting shorter but the days are getting longer. How strange is that?
Did you know that I'm on MySpace? Yep, Have been for awhile. I did something that is either really brave, silly or foolhardy. Take your pic.
I downloaded their IM product.
I have Yahoo messenger too but only one person "talks" to me on that. She's an author and I adore her. She has her first published book out but I haven't read it yet. I bought it, but naughty me, haven't read it. I remember her sharing excerpts with me and I will tell you, I KNOW I'm going to enjoy the anthology. No doubt about it. Just haven't gotten around to it. Same with another author I found while aimlessly hitting the Next Blog button. It was the first time I'd ever found a real cool blog by doing that. I bought her book too, but again, haven't found the time to read it.
Of course I HAVE read books, but these are Ebooks. Which means I have to sit my butt down in the chair and stay there. Paper books can be dragged all over - the bedroom, the waiting room at a car dealership, um .... dare I say, the bathroom too? ... yes indeed, paperback books can travel. So they get read quicker, easier and first.
Yes, yes, I know all about the E-readers out there. The big difference is the price. I'm looking at the choice between my handy dandy stationary PC already paid for vs. a fancy on the go machine that I would have to buy. I don't know about you, but I really don't see the need to spend money on that kind of device .... yet.
I am keeping my eye on them though. It's one of the future wish list items , like DSL ( no supporting wiring avaliable from phone company as of yet) or a new fancy schmancy digital camera or a landscaper. I'd throw in a maseusse, but I'd be pushing my luck.
I priced the cable internet around here. I'm curious as to what other companies charge for cable internet.
I was quoted $47.00 per month plus an initial $50.00 installation fee.
Is that comparable to other parts of the country? Are there cheaper rates out there? More?
Personally, I think they are greedy. Why does it have to be almost 50 bucks a month? In my locality, there is no competition - you either have cable or dial up.
*sigh*
I hate monopolies.
So, between all and sundry, time flies between posts. I hope all is well with all my visitors and that your holiday/Christmas shopping is going well.
Me?
Haven't even started.
Oh my.
Sunday, December 03, 2006
Flying Slugs
I just wanted to update my blog with a snippet of my family life.
Today I was treated to a new sport.
Flying Slugs.
First, you build one of those balsam wood planes that use a rubber band for propulsion.
Second, you go outside and look under rocks, old rotting wood or forest debris.
Third, attach said slugs onto the wings of the plane.
Fourth, Wind her up.
Fifth, Let 'er rip!!
The amazing thing? The slugs stay on for more rides!
Doesn't it remind you of when you go on a roller coaster? Don't you always want to immediately go on another daring ride?
Guess we have something in common with the common slug.
Who knew they were little dare devils?
*grin*
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